wow cardinal. You've entered the crazy territory......I can't believe your H did that.
hopefully one day you will be able to look back and laugh at it.
I don't really talk to my MIL anymore, I'll send here some pics of the boys here and there. In the beginning I had this ideal that we will still be family, but it just somehow doesn't feel that way anymore. There is no value in it for me. Even having her as a "friend" does not contribute to my life in any way.
It's kind of like shedding dead skin. You don't necessarily make the decision for it to go away, it just does.