I am so very sorry. I agree w/all of the posters. Make every attempt to separate your emotions from this situation and look at all of it as a business contract that has soured and now you need to move forward and dissolve the situation the best way that you can. Seek a good lawyer, make a list of questions and ask them. Take notes and keep all info to yourself and do not share anything that you have been told by your lawyer. I agree w/bttrfly...you are entitled legally and it is the law and not his decision. The law will state exactly what needs to be done and how it's done.
Come here to vent, be gentle w/yourself and yes, you will have ups and downs while going through this process. Trust your gut and if you aren't sure of something, ask your lawyer or even come here...we will listen and offer advice as many of us have been where you are right now.
Hang in there!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
