Gerda, I have two L I have consulted with in the past and like. I think I know who I will go with. I don’t want a contested D if possible and I don’t know what he would even propose in a D agreement, since all these papers show is a box checked for annulment. No financial info or proposed settlement attached (I suppose because they request an annulment and not a dissolution). Plus I don’t think he wants to do the work of listing out possessions, etc.

If I file a response to the annulment papers that request a D instead of an annulment, is that considered contested? I’m just wondering at what point a D crosses into contested territory if we have no proposed agreements yet on either side. Is it once we have each proposed agreements and both L say we can’t come to an agreement and we want to go to court, then is it contested?

Thank you for sending me strength, Gerda!


T: 16 M:10
BD 6/2019