He lives in the same house and has you served at work. That did sound likely, but still... wow. And I really don’t know what he is trying to get across with the “no technical biblical sex”. Yeah, his hamster has fell of its wheel.
I would follow one thing he said:
Originally Posted by cardinal
He'd rather ensure we both have lawyers
Yep. Get a lawyer. See what you are untitled too. Learn your rights. Discover if he owes you support or if you owe him. Perhaps the assets are greater than you know. H wouldn’t be the first person to try to pull a fast one.
Come in from the ledge. It’s narrow and it’s cold outside - well it is here.
This event certainly does stir one’s emotions. It’s ok to feel all over the place for a while. When I got served, XW had been gone for 11 months and it still shocked me.
The rage will pass. Do not make any decisions for a few days; to ensure you are calmed down.
Speak with a lawyer. Consider all the angles of this business deal gone bad, and go from there. Keep this business. It really is; even thought it doesn’t feel that way right now.
Stay strong.
Be the grey rock. Go dim/NC.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
