I did indeed meet this gentleman for coffee. Very nice guy but no immediate attraction. He reminded me a little of Nicholas Cage which is neither good nor bad. We've had an additional two dates because I didn't want to be hasty just because the attraction wasn't immediate. We didn't have much in common. I'm outdoorsy and if the weather is decent, I can be found outside and he likes to watch sports on TV. He's retired and I'm still working. Perhaps the biggest difference became apparent quickly. He is looking to find another wife which I don't have a desire to be, at least not for the foreseeable future.
I don't know if it was the aura of neediness that bothered me or the feeling of pressure when being in his company but I told him that I didn't think we were a match and he agreed.
