Ok. Now stop telling her what you want. She knows. That is why she doesn't "need or want" your advice, because she knows what it will be.

LBSs constantly think they can just say one more thing to fix it. You cannot. You know the only thing that had a profound affect on my WAW? Was when I embraced her decision and took action myself on it. She said she wanted a D. So I started to make preparations for that. I consulted with an attorney. I organized thoughts around a D settlement. I started making plans to sell the house. Etc. Everything I said up to that point fell on deaf errors. When she saw that I was preparing to move on with out her it caused her to go "Oh, I better be sure that this is what I want."

WMWB, question: Do you think it made her respect you more or less finding the meds you've started using? Did it make you look strong or weak? You should have hid those from her like gold.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018