I have started some meds to even out my emotions a bit and my wife happened to see them and suggested that if all was affecting me so much she would move back with our daughter but I told her that I was not wanting to S at this time and thought it best we remained under the same roof, talk about stating the obvious though of course its affecting me but luckily with this board I have had some great advice. I am also in IC right now via telephone consultations due to covid.
She said she needed to be left alone to sort her own feelings out but what I think she means by that is that she doesn't need (or want) my advice or suggestions about what she would do (which I would have done before). I told her I understood that while that may have been something I have done before I realise I canno't help with that and that is her work to do alone.
