Thank you everyone!
It went really well. Everybody were happy of the outcome !

Now, yet another " red flag " ( i would say )...
D20 went to spend a few days at her father in her reading week.this is the daughter who is in University, studying psychology and mental health)
I do not know how the subject came about but ex-h commented : " sometimes, i feel like going in a crowd and shooting all the idiots, just to see how it feels! "

D20: "OMG dad, this is alarming. Are ypu ok? "
Ex- h: " am just kidding ".

He said these words 3 times in the few days she was there.
Is he playing , taunting her? Or is he in a mental state again?

I do not trust this man. I do not know what happen to the one i fell in love with and felt so safe by his side.
To have those tought of "seeing how it feels" seems very scary to me.

My reply was: " well, he thinks everyone are idiots."
" lets hope he does not go through with his words."