Your new jobs sounds like a great fit for you. It’s very satisfying to be part of a team with likeminded values. I suspect soon, some coworkers will become closer friends and you will be able to share those meaningful things.
Tomorrows work visit: It may not be divorce paperwork, however it certainly does sound probably.
H not mentioning it, if indeed that is the case, yeah that sounds about right. My divorce was sprung upon me while I happened to be at my lawyer’s adjusting my will. The paperwork was delivered to him, to deliver to me. No word from XW, nothing.
It is strange to see all those years of R; 30 for me; and have D papers silently delivered to you. H is on his path. Give him to God.
Originally Posted by cardinal
Can I just be okay with knowing and believing my own feelings and my own mind?
Absolutely.
Reflecting upon one’s past, seeing how different it is, does bring forth questions. And yet, it bring answers as well. A comfort and contentment is found within the stark difference between then and now. For what was once so unbelievable becomes believed - MLC, WAS, H’s behaviour, and such.
You know your past. You know you care. You are kind and compassionate. You are content.
You did love H. You still do.
Believe in yourself. You’ve no need to convince or prove anyone else’s point of view wrong or right.
D
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
