Underdog suggested that I visit. I have read the book and attended his seminar by the same name.

First, I suggest that you finish the book and digest it a while before doing any in depth analysis of Elderedge's message. It's not as obvious or clear to many on the first read.

Second, I suggest you consider it not from an all-or-nothing perspective, but that he is merely pointing out that girls and boys (and thus, men and women) are different.

How many boys do you see holding tea parties? How many girls do you see playing army?

He is suggesting that God is reflected differently in men and women and perhaps the modern church and our society has emasculated men and their true nature....(WAH is aimed at men, obviously, but the same concept can be applied, albeit differently, to women as he touches upon in the book

Take this slow, and good luck.

Hud