Hi Sage

You are on the right path.

You need this. It is for your emotional health.

And... it might just have a positive affect upon H. That is not the reason - you are the reason. If H experiences a loss and gets pushed forward a bit, well that’s a bonus.

Stick to your guns. “We are separated. This is what happens when you’re separated.”

Stand strong. We’ve got your back.

D

Feelings are fleeting.
Be better, not bitter.
Love the person, forgive the sin.