Originally Posted by Steve85
[quote=WMWB] I recently heard a story of a man that had a pet raccoon. He rescued it as a baby, and had it in a cage. It never domesticated and was mean even though he raised it and fed it. It was in an outdoor pen and would run and up down the side of the pen constantly. One day he decided to let it go. He opened the cage door. The raccoon continued to run up and down the side of the cage including direction of the completely open door. But it would turn around and go the other way every time. Finally, the man banged on the outside of the cage, and raccoon finally bolted towards the door, into the woods to freedom. Your WAW is like that pet raccoon. You open the door. SHE will decide whether to run off into the woods or not.


Just don't bang on the outside of the cage.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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