I agree with Steve. My point in my post was you have no idea what is happening in your W's head right now. All you can do is back off on the pressure and spend time figuring out what it is that YOU want. If you want to S, then S. If you want to stand, then stand. You can't predict the future and as Steve says, stop trying to control what you cannot. All you can do is give her time and space, and spend that time focusing on you.
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing
