I disagree. Time and space are the only thing that turns these around long term. They have to come home when they are ready to come home and ready to work on the marriage. Anything else is typically a “stay of execution”. While they are not in the marriage everything you do is annoying and magnified 1000% while they are in that mindset.
So are you thinking we are just riding to an inevitable separation again?
WMWB you have no idea that that is inevitable. If you don't give her time and space, then I think that is more likely than not. Most LBSs pressure and pursue their WAS right out of the door. Back off. Let her have the time and space to figure her own crap out. You go do your own thing. GAL, 180s, detach. Those are not just words.
Stop trying to control what you cannot.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
