A woman’s sex drive wanes when the guy isn’t doing anything to rev it up.
Originally Posted by Steve85
THIS!!!!!!!!!!!
A woman's sex drive wanes when the guy is also a selfish jerkface that isn't meeting her needs, even if she feels stuck with him in a crappy,. loveless marriage.
My W's current sex drive is proof that if the H is putting in the energy to the relationship then her sex drive will follow suit! I was in a SSM for a longtime because I stopped being there for her emotionally, making her feel special, making her feel desirable and wanted, doing my part.
Guys, never stop dating your W. PERIOD. When you take her for granted, yeah her sex drive will wane.
This is all fine when the couple is working on the relationship.
But when one person is done, the rules change. Reducing resentment and all the other DBing skills need to be done before there is any chance of dating.
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