Perhaps the life with the OM wasn't turning out to be what she thought it would be and maybe he wasn't who she thought he was which is why she started reaching out to me again and was still hesitant to end it with OM. Then whatever happened that caused her to end it with OM I do think with all honesty she wanted to come back and work on the M otherwise she would have just gone home with her parents as they offered to take her home with them.
I understand the reasons for wanting to come back are important and mistakes in that regard have now been made, I should have been more aware of the motivation and I should have put boundaries in place for coming back.
However we are where we are now and I don't know where her head is at and if she is backsliding due to missing the OM or if there is another reason I just don't know and that is the dilemma that is my life right now.
