Nope and that comes back to me being a total idiot and letting her come back so easy! I honestly think it’s a waste of time having her phone pin etc as she could easily just be deleting texts etc. She says she wants more independence (which I have never stopped her having) as she has never been an independent person before being that she went from living with parents to being married and having kids, I do get that but it just seems counter intuitive to what’s needed right now to heal the marriage (transparency). She is doing take set by her councillor (going to shops herself etc) and seems to be driven by what she wants to do and I now know how important it was to have boundaries in place before she came back.
