I feel for you. A text like that coming out of the blue is quite a gut punch.
There is no need to respond, she has not asked a question. If she has made up her mind to file, anything you say to the contrary will just add fuel to the fire. There is also no need to agree, for you don’t. Be patient and see what information comes your way. Ensure your financial security and protection are met in the agreement.
A lot of MLCers like to jerk around their spouse, playing games and not actually submitting an agreement. Just looking for a rise or a fight from you. If she pushes a D forward, let her own it and let her do the heavy lifting.
Keep moving forward and give her to God.
You are doing great. You will be ok.
D
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
