Thanks Steve85. That's what I figured...he is heartbroken because the affair is over and he is miserable. I know he doesn't truly hates me because he still talks to me, even though he says little. He is trying to find way to make me the bad guy in all this.
I've practicing saying less and getting out of the way. That's hard for me because life at work and with family is hard right now and I don't have anyone to talk to. However, I need to maintain a happy attitude.
I hope and pray things get better and he comes out of the funk he is in again. Time to detach...again.
Yep, I witnessed it twice with my W with both of her EAs. I witnessed it with friends that were in EAs/PAs that ended. That mourning process is a mandatory step....and it is fraught with relapses. All you can do is keep DBing.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
