I do not have concrete evidence that she has EA/PA but I've always assumed she has. Maybe instead of saying open marriage I will change it to that I refuse to be in such a state.
She's going to view an apartment this saturday, if it goes well for her she will be moving out pretty soon.
The only thing I'm frustrated about is her frequent outings with her friends for dinner and drinks and her overnight stays which she never says where she's going.
I think its very fair to say "she is" - and 99% of the time, they deny it - even on their childrens lives. To put into context, i spent every night with my WW for over 7 years.. Even after a night out, she came home.. Hit WW world and she feeds me a cock and bull story of "needing a better nights sleep and not wanting the children to wake her up after a night out" - hence stayed "her mums" most saturdays.. Its BS, but you cannot change it.. And i garantee you that they won't see it as an issue or neglecting the kids.. In the selfish WW mindset, she is entitled to do as she wants ...
Originally Posted by AKuei
She doesn't even want to spend time with the kids and when she is with the kids, she is usually shouting at them to move their asssses to either shower or eat their food. But I do see there were moments where she was nice and calm to the kids too. Just that the shouting and her impatient moments were more than the calm ones. Should I voice this discontent to her?
This again is the norm. You need to understand her old mindset is gone. All she will be thinking about is OM.. Waiting for the next text to light up her phone or meetup. To her, you and the children are in the way of this exciting fantasy she now lives in. She is stuck in a home with you in the kids - therefore it is you and the kids that are making her unhappy. Nothing you say or do will change this.
Voicing this will make zero change - You cannot control her actions and you sure has hell will not understand her. So just be the bigger man, and show the kids where their support network lies. Trust me on this - They will see this and know who their rock is.. My relationship with D8 is amazing.. She 6 when i ended the reationship, but she knows full well who have the time for her
Originally Posted by AKuei
Other than that, she has free reign to do whatever the F she wants; I'm not getting in her way in anything she does.
Keep working on you - it gets sooo much better.
Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..
Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.
