Next time you’re making snacks, or maybe better - go make some snacks and say “Hi H. I’m making some popcorn, would you like some?”.
No pressure. No expectations. Just an offer of popcorn.
H is mixed up and emotionally immature. You need to be the bigger person, the adult in the room. Lead by example. Break the ice and then let him do what he will. You wish would have spoken. A week from now you still will, unless you do something about it.
(((Hugs)))
You got this.
By the way, I like butter and salt on my popcorn. If your making some.
D
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
