I think because of all of the crap during this process I've started to wonder if my wife is intentionally distancing herself so that I will make the decision to just give up. Sometimes it feels like her actions are just intentional rather than part of a process. I mean I know she may be going through some things of her own but so am I but that doesn't stop me asking how she is or doing something nice for her.
My wife and I used to text back and forth throughout the day, now she just goes to work and I hear nothing from her at all day unless I reach out to her (had your lunch? etc). I ask her how work is going and she never asks about me or how my work is. Is very frustrating.
