Or do this:

Originally Posted by Ready2Change
Hi Wolf,

Be the leader.

Get into couple therapy with her. Find 3 or 4 in your area and both of you go interview them. Jointly pick one.

We all have issues. The people in our lives are there to point them out to us and help us fix them.


You can handle this.



Evaluate all your choices, make a choice, accept the consequences of that choice. Rinse and repeat.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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