Can I get a perspective on one thing my STBXW did? After 32 years of marriage, as I described in the initial post, she walked out. Classic WAW syndrome. Gone.

She sent me one hand-written letter the day after I was served, explaining things, but it was a rambling letter and actually confused matters, because in one part she said she needed to divorce me but in the other part she said "we need to do this for now" which I assumed meant that our marriage still had hope.

We met twice during the next 2.5 weeks. Then, she cut off all contact and basically refused to talk about anything directly, using her attorney instead.

Would some of you have a perspective why she would cut off even talking? Was that her attorney, saying "he might use anything you say against you in front of the judge"? Was she just trying to put distance between us? Was she afraid that if she talked to me, she would lose the will to move ahead with the divorce?

Anyway, given that there are both WAWs and LBSs on this forum, I could use perspective or your own personal experience. Thanks.