I moved last month to an apartment with S19 and S11. So far, so good on that. We are closing on the sale of our marital home today (fingers crossed), so another link broken. We are in the process of scheduling what will likely be our final mediation session.
W texted this morning and said she wanted to talk to the kids about "a few things" but wanted to talk to me first. I responded saying that's fine, and asked what she had in mind. She said she was going into work and would text me later. She indicated it would be about "new people in her life." No surprise here, but any and all advice on how to handle this is appreciated.
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You cannot control any of that. And it is within her power to introduce new people to your kids. The only time you have a leg to stand on is if the "person" is a threat to a minor child. IE, if she is introducing known sex-offenders to your S11 then you'd have a legal standing to take action to prevent that. LBSs whose WAS begin to introduce another person (IE, a love interest) to their children usually do not like it, but there is little you can do to prevent it.
So be the best father that you can be, no matter what your STBXW does.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
