My H definitely know that the problems lies within him since his first awakening although he bounced back several times until he finally broke with OW.
Since that time he stopped projecting the problem on me.
The biggest issue is that he doesn't want to go to a qualified therapist since he had a really bad experience with one when he was a teenager. Due to several trauma's he has been to a therapist from the age of 8 until he was 12 and then another therapist when he was 18 but that was not good at all and he swore he would never go again.
That is why he says he has to do it on his own, although he also opens up to his stepfather lately. I don't push anymore. Did this in the past and didn't work at all.
