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I heard that sometimes there may be a trigger out of MLC, But I have not seen that too much here

Some MLCers seem to start coming back around and connecting again,
some do reconcile

But I would not count on a quick reversal
Once in the tunnel it can last 2-7 years or more depending on the person

I also think when they get deep into alcohol, destructive relationships, debt it may be harder for them to find a way out
Many a MLCer will create debt and drug abuse
this needs to be watched

I think the one thing that may help the MLCer is if they realize they need help and can get to a qualified therapist or 12 step program and work through issues

But Usually they don't realize they have a problem and intsead they project it on to us

Keep working on you
watch him- his actions
watch the finances