So hopefully this link worked. I usually am savvy. LOL
Anyway, H came home after being gone all weekend. When he left, he did not tell me or even D25 that he was leaving for the weekend or when he would be home.
My last post discussed I gave him power over my anxiety because he did not even say hello.
I need to work on the "what ifs" this seems to be an issue with me. I need to remind myself he is gone from the marriage.
So I just got home from work a little while ago. H is in the bedroom, door shut. Now I wonder when he decides to poke his head out. It is the elephant in the room that he left and did not tell anyone. I know if this was D25, even though she is not a kid anymore, common courtesy lends itself to letting your people in the home you will be gone so there is no worry. I obviously cannot confront him and maybe he is expecting this.
I think if I say hi when i see him, I am lying. I am mad.
But let's face reality, he doesn't care if I was put out by him leaving. What am I going to do, divorce him? It is like leaving a job after you gave notice, if you mess up what are they going to do, fire you?
So any advice on what to say or how to react? Also, this could be ongoing for a few days.
PLC
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