3 months in

[Pommy99]

Hi Rachel, sorry you are in this place. I agree with gigi that it's not a good idea to file unless you want him back right now, in the sorry mess that he's in, or, you are prepared to follow through with D if he doesn't come back right now.

You deserve to be respected and valued - he is showing neither of those. He's cake-eating, and hoping (even asking) that you'll wait in the wings in case things go wrong with OW.

DB like mad and go NC as much as you can.

Can I ask why you do want him back, given that this is not the first time it's happened? What qualities does he bring to your M?

Sending hugs!