Need advice on stubborn W

[MrBrside]

The key is to use the pain to become a better person and the rest will work itself out.

And to be that rock for your children - they WILL need you - As LH says, they all follow a similar script - and unfortunetly in most cases, the WW not only turns out to be a bad relationship / wife choice, but a poor mother as well.. Hence you need to step up - This will give you something to focus on !