Just got a text from her. Looking for advice and wanted to run sich by everyone. She asked if I had any plans for thanksgiving tomorrow. I am suspecting she wants invite me for supper with her and the kids. What should I do?
Originally Posted by CWarrior
Expectations. My usual response to, "Are you free on xxx?" is "Why do you ask?" The more information you have, the easier it is to make a good decision.
I Googled common answers to this uncomfortable question: "Why, what's up?" or "Why do you ask?" or "It all depends.." I'm apparently not alone in being unwilling to answer until they reveal their purpose. She has not proposed spending Thanksgiving together--that's your expectation. I've been bitten by expectations before. It's very possible, but it's also possible she wants wants to know if you're moving on or moping at home waiting for her, or to send you the kids so you can attend another event.
