I don't disagree with any of you! But this conversation has gotten off track if I might say so ... the issue at hand was whether during the dating process the intensity and level of sex is unrealistic, and that, especially for men, they mistake the sex for love, thereby driving bad decisions for second marriages and explaining why the second marriage failure rate is so high (60-70% per Steve85), because the amount of sex inevitably falls, especially after remarriage.
