Journey of me and H Part 1

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PLC

It is hard to let go, you are doing well and with every passing day, you are stronger
more grounded and with more clarity

Because MLC usually is a long road, we have to continue on
gal, hobbies, friends, spiritual stuff ( I know-u know all this )
finding things that we enjoy and let go of them
hard I know-living for today but planning for tomorrow

As for the end of MLC...I think it is different for each of us
We see clues, we see H choices, we heal and let go more
then the time does seem to come for most of us
either the MLCer makes attempt at reconciliation and returns
or
a D is filed...some people get back together after D
and
sometimes it is us... we just dont want to be here any longer..
we move on


Depending on the damage the MLC does to himself...some begin destructive affairs, get in debt, get into drugs/alcohol
lose jobs, get sick and then all these issues have to be addressed as well
they dont always get out of MLC the same...they create more baggage

only in time will you know the outcome
living in some amount of uncertainty ..

.life asks that of us and doing our best to continue with our growth

This way you teach your D how to take care of herself, we have no regrets for our M because we know how we tried to work it out and we set ourselves up for the best possible future
whichever way it goes