Our sich is a little different in that we were in a home together that we couldn't afford. Prior to the separation we were planning on moving anyways. So she downsized into a home that she could afford with the kids. So I disagree that she is done. I could be wrong but my gut tells me. I also feel this way as she didn't want me to buy a house for myself. She wanted me to rent an apartment with is more of a short term situation. I am getting my $hit together. Learning, growing, going out with friends and still trying to detatch. Taking it one day at a time and waiting for her to reach out to me. Although, I made a mistake the other day when I invited her out to a patio on Friday night but she declined. Thanks for the response guys