Yes, I have that thought about that before. To be honest, one of my biggest fears. But like I said there is no proof at this point. I really do think that wants to work on things down the road and I feel that she wouldn't want to jeopardize the chance of recon down the road with dating around. Just my personal feeling but again, who knows
I will give it to you straight Tim. IMO right now she is done. A woman is not going to go out and purchase a new house if she has thoughts of reconciliation. Now, if she's not done and doesn't have another man on her mind if you get your $hit together and GAL like a madman then she will notice. If you do nothing and wait around like a little puppy dog around the table and jump at her scraps then nothing will change and she will eventually find someone else.
Steve85 says 90% of WWs will want to reconcile at some point in the future. That number seems high to me but I can tell you my friends parents reconciled after 35 years apart.
You need to get stronger Tim. One way or another this is just part of your journey.
