My pics on FB are still of our wedding just over a year ago. R status is still with her. (waiting till I'm legally not married). She changed hers a long time ago. (She even removed pictures she's tagged in with me and pictures with the kids...)
If people tell you you are the nicest and you are serious about the books principles you need to realize this: That change will also be a marathon. Maybe even longer then the sitch. I'm thinking I will read the book once a year for as long as it takes, and I am NOT a fast reader. There are some good podcasts that help on this subject as well.
Try to keep your mind on yourself and what you want to improve.
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021
