Gigi, I think if I filed right now it would be to scare him. When he came here the other night I was very angry and that is why I brought it up-the lawyer and the whole thing. I can't take much more of this, especially if he keeps saying he "doesn't know what he is doing," but is really running around with her. I am willing to give it a little more time while I DB and back off emotionally for real, but at some point I have to draw the line.

Originally Posted by Gigi123

He is telling you now about his relationship with another woman! He wants to gove it a go because he has invested 3 months into this?!


This made me mad also. He said he did invest 9 years in our marriage, but how is it trying if you are cheating repeatedly?

I had plans to go out overnight tonight but they were canceled. I am hoping to get out and get some shopping done and me time when he is with the kids today.

Last edited by rachel75; 10/10/20 01:42 PM.