Ugh Pax… finally!! Hard to believe it is almost 5 years ago to the day that you joined the forum and this chapter is closing for you now. I am so grateful that I was able to follow your journey. You were there for me every step of the way and I tried to reciprocate. This news makes me very happy for you.
I know you came here to try and save your marriage, but I truly believe this is a way better out come for you. I think you will have a better and more fulfilling life without him. I remember reading back in newcomers and marveling at how much you focused on using that gift of time to learn about yourself and relationships. I hope it gave you a super clear picture of exactly what you want in future relationships. You really embraced that time like few others. I remember all your activities…. Half marathons, full marathons, Mt Whitney, triathlons, humanitarian medical missions, body building competition, personal development the list goes on and on. I hope you can take some time and reflect back on how far you have come. You are a special person, do not forget that. Any man will be lucky to have you. Congrats Pax!
