It's funny May, I know the vets would say that we haven't made our WS work hard enough to get back in. They are absolutely correct. I don't know that I could or would change anything I've done in my journey and I really feel like I have been true to myself the entire time.
Something I've noticed with the situations here is that the LBSs need to get to where they need to be authentically. Sometimes you need to have tried and tested every possible option before you're ready to take that next step. I totally believe this. I need to know in my soul that I'm doing the right thing if I opt for S or D. I also don't regret the choices I've made to date. I think it is so important to feel like you're being true to yourself-- in the end, that is what matters, not what anyone else thinks.
I'm glad you're feeling peace and stability within yourself. Hope you keep updating here at least every once in awhile!
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Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing
