Newbie trust/dishonesty issues. Help!

[Ready2Change]

I have been receiving mixed opinions on this situation......I’m totally confused

This is one of the hardest parts of DBing. Some say go left, some say go right. Some say go straight. I say stop, look left, look right, then scan all the options in between. If you typically go left and right looks scary, you probably should go right. The key is not to continue what you normally would do. Face your fear and try something new and different. These are the 180s.

Evaluate all your options, make a choice and live with the consequences of that choice, good or bad or indifferent.


Example: If you normally argue your point, STFU and listen. If you are normally quiet and dont' voice your POV, then speak up.