Divorce and Acceptance part 5

[Pax_luv]

Hello there!
Been a while!
I’m divorced as of a few weeks ago! Well, I’m still waiting for the paperwork from his side so who knows when that will be.

We ended up settling right before trial. I left a ton on the table. But I couldn’t do it anymore. They were going to destroy me in court. He had fake testimony drawn up. We were going to have it thrown out but his family actually wrote fake testimony to explain where his money (and our money) went missing. And to declare that he owed them money which explains why he “lost” a bunch 2 days before we separated and cleared the accounts.

You would not even believe the bs this guy pulled. If I had a dark bone in my body I would be calling the feds. But I have no desire to waste even two seconds thinking about him.

Evil evil evil.

But I am free! And I’m good. I did not get a fair settlement. I learned a lot in the process. For example- I went in 50/50 because I felt that was fair. He went in 100-0. So really the only way to negotiate was to go down to his level which was a far cry from 50/50. And i only went 50/50 on appropriate items like house equity, savings accounts, etc.

So financially, does it pay off to be fair? nope.

Is my heart totally clear and my integrity in tact? you betcha. I have zero remorse over my stance.

Nope I won’t have a down payment on a condo, and I’ll be paying legal debt for while, but I can sleep at night.

The ex on the other hand, seems a bit in turmoil. He maintains his stance that I am the devil. Meanwhile, he got the financial sweet end of the stick. Which is what he wanted.

Good riddance.