Newbie trust/dishonesty issues. Help!

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Wife dropped off the kids last night for an overnight....She stated she was feeling overwhelmed with everything.....She said she is exhausted and is needing a break. .... Anyways, I am wondering if I should try to help out a little bit more with the kids. Maybe take them a few extra days to give her a break?

Hi Tim,

I am not sure what your parenting arrangement is, but what is best for the kids is equal and frequent time with each parent. If you have less than the 50%, I would take the kids any time she offers. If it is significantly less that 50%, I would get a "first right of refusal" agreement in place and work toward a 50/50 agreement.

If you have equal parenting time, exceptions will happen and you both will need to be flexible. If it becomes a pattern, then seek more advice here.