There is no proof of a OM. I have checked. We had agreed prior to separating that we were not going to date and focus on ourselves and the kids.
Yeah, they all agree to that. They aren't going to say "yeah I plan on going out and sleeping with whomever I want!" Just mentally prepare yourself for the other shoe to drop. 99% of these things result in an OP suddenly appearing.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
