Thanks Steve85. This makes sense to me. Yes I actually ordered No More Mr. Nice Guy from Amazon and I plan to read it. Through this separation I have realized that I have been a doormat in our relationship and I have probably lost her respect. I also avoid conflict at all costs and I have been emotionally detatched.
There is no proof of a OM. I have checked. We had agreed prior to separating that we were not going to date and focus on ourselves and the kids.
