Seeking advice here from the vets before i make my next move:

My kids told me today that the W was talking to them about her moving out and coming up with a sort of arrangements of picking them up from school. All without my knowledge.
Should I confront her about it? I don’t like the fact that she’s talking to the kids about such serious matters behind my back. It seems like she’s hell bent on moving out.

My D6 told me she agreed to let my W do that because she thought it's only for 1 day. I told her it might not be that case and it kinda hit her like a truck and quickly said no she doesn't want that. My D4 told her vehemently no way she wants that to happen.

I don't agree to this action of hers; trying to gather consensus vote from the kids behind my back. I felt a lot of anger right now but I'm telling myself not to blow my top. I have to be calm and collected in face of this adversity.

Need some enlightenment on this please...

Last edited by AKuei; 10/09/20 02:11 PM.
M(36), W(36), D(6), D(4)
M-7, T-8
Bomb Drop - Nov 28, 2019
W requested separation - Sep 30, 2020