Wife dropped off the kids last night for an overnight. This is the first time she has seen my new apartment since I was asked to move out August 1. The visit was hot and cold. She stated she was feeling overwhelmed with everything. Specifically about a few things with the lawyer and the new house. She said she is exhausted and is needing a break. She broke down at one point and I validated and provided empathy. She didn't mention the R but I suspect it is on her mind. She was also asking me questions about what I am doing with my time. I just said I have been meeting with friends, working out and reading alot. Anyways, I am wondering if I should try to help out a little bit more with the kids. Maybe take them a few extra days to give her a break? Or am I being too much of a nice guy? Not sure what I should do. I read somewhere online that I should try to help out in a way that makes her life better. Or are they totally off here?
Also, day off today so I am meeting two friends today, going to do some personal growth reading and hopefully work on my music. Something that I haven't touched since the bomb