am wondering if she is noticing any of my changes? Not that I'm doing it for her. I'm just curious as to what she is thinking
Right now she feels a sense of relief and is excited about her future. She has a sense of hope and optimism that she hasn't really had in along time. Right now she has a lot of expectations of how being single is going to play out. Luckily for you these expectations rarely come to fruition. If you work on yourself and have patience she may look back and realize this was a mistake. This will likely to years to play out.
Can you add a signature like mine?
I want to add, that even if you are having thoughts like this the WAW can sense it. "He is trying to show changes to manipulate me back to the marriage." When you can get to the point where you don't care if she notices or not then you will be in the right frame of mind.
Change for you. If she notices, fine. If not, fine. The fact that you are even wondering if she is noticing makes question your motives. We had a post here a couple of years ago that did EVERYTHING to try to get his WAW to notice him and what he was doing. Last I knew they were D'd because the changes were not real and genuine.
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