We spoke a little today and he is still in contact with OW. Went there to get his stuff and she had another guy over there and he stayed a while and ended up leaving his things. He said he will go get them when he has a semi permanent place to stay, otherwise he will be lugging it all around in his work truck with him. He seems to be very confused and doesn't know what he wants. Today he did not specify one way or another if he wants to try to make it work with me.
At one point I said I don't know what he is thinking/doing/feeling (probably not DB but oh well). He said he did not want to come home last night and ask me to take him back and let him move back in because he didnt think it was a good idea to be making big decisions in the midst of that chaos. I am irritated because that actually makes sense. And if he came here last night begging me to take him back, I would have thought it was because I am plan B for him, just because she dumped him.
