Thank you Dnj,

I am beginning to feel frustrated. Frustrated with the situation.

He has done nothing different. I am doing my own thing. I think that the monotony of the situation with him is doing this. He is very much avoidant of home life.

It is weird. I came home from work yesterday as he was leaving the house. I said hello and he replied. I asked if he was leaving and he said, "yes, i'll be right back" I didn't reply. Its the way he says things. Very mumbly, no eye contact.

I think it would have been weird had we not said anything.

I am continuing to GAL but I wonder if he is planning anytime to head out to visit OW (or at least try). I think that is somewhat waiting for another shoe to drop. I think back and when he came home from being out of the coutry working, It took him almost 4 months to seem like he was coming out of the fog. That lasted until May when I disovered OW2, and then he slowly began to turn towards himself that he eventually asked for a D at the end of July.

Today, I just am tired.

PLC