One last thing on the changing of jobs. You seem to be hanging your hat on her changing jobs as a sign that she was serious about coming back.

Or was it more that she was just upset with OM and didn't want to have to see him daily? In other words, did she change jobs to get away from OM for the good of the marriage? Or was it the good of herself?

My guess? She would have changed jobs to get away from OM even if you had told her to kick rocks.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018